Kin to the Other

A working definition of the term Otherkin, and the beginnings of a framework for further work with the idea.  This is not, as some have thought, an attempt to replace the word Otherkin with another term.  Rather, it is an attempt to define the word Otherkin in a meaningful way by looking at the root words that form it.
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Awakening

This is a rewritten version of an essay that I posted to the Otherkin Resource Center in 1999. It has been updated to reflect my current understanding and interpretations of the experience of Awakening, from a more mature perspective, and with the benefit of hindsight. The original article is archived at the Internet Archive's Wayback Machine.
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Warning Signs

The world is not a safe place. That's a given. Guns, violence, robbery, murder... these are the things we live with each day. It is part of our reality, and we must cope with it as best we can. So we develop strategies, rules of thumb that keep us safe. Many of them we don't even think about anymore. Don't walk down a dark alley alone late at night in a bad neighborhood. Don't take candy from strangers. Don't trust anyone who reminds you of your cousin Larry the used car salesman. Simplistic rules... but they keep us safe.
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Change is Coming

Change is coming. How many times have we heard those words before, in the kin community? It is a common prophecy, stated by both the newly awakened and those who have been awakened for some time. Often it is interpreted to mean that magic is coming back. Sometimes it is interpreted to mean that a magical war is coming. Sometimes it's just interpreted to mean that those of us who came from Elsewhere will be going Home. But always, those words are spoken in one form or another. Change is coming.

This time those words are right.


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Abusive Situations

Abuse. It is a powerful word, which evokes an immediate reaction when it is used. It carries with it images of battered women, molested children, people who have forever been scarred by the things which were done to them. Few people would acknowledge it as a word which is unfamiliar to them. But do people really understand the full extent of what abusive situations entail? For the purposes of this article, an abusive situation is defined rather simply as any situation which is destructive to one or more of the people affected by it. This destructiveness can take place on many different levels, ranging from something as concrete as physical harm, to something as subjective as emotional harm, or even to such things as mental or financial harm.
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